The custody battle, and child support. Everyone has their own opinions about how everybody does things. I am a firm believer that when you create a life, you have to be responsible to help support the life you created and be a good role model. But in some cases if you are a person who is not taking care of what needs to be, or aren’t a good role model for your child then you shouldn’t have the right to any decisions that are made to for the better of the child.
This is the argument that I have been fighting my whole daughters life. My daughters father chooses to party first before spending time with my daughter, this began when she was born. I have had to work two jobs in order to pay my rent and struggled to pay for food. At that point I signed up for child support. But of course the court always sided with him.
They told him just get two jobs pay off your arrears. Then make sure you pay your child support. The year after nothing has still been paid and I’m depending on family to help me get school clothes and supplies so I can pay my bills on time. Court comes around again, something finally happens or so I thought he owes 3 grand they ask if he has any money he says no. So then he gets arrested. Not even 5 minutes later he makes a phone call for $500 and he is let go.
But guess what, since that day my daughter has not received anything. She see’s her father every other weekend I don’t know where, because the court was given a false address. She comes home overtired, and with the worst temper tantrums… until the next post Please Subscribe!
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